i love the Women Against Feminism that are like “I dont need feminism because i can admit i need my husband to open a jar for me and thats ok!” cause listen 1. get a towel 2. get the towel damp 3. put it on the lid and twist. BAM now men are completely useless. you, too, can open a jar. time to get a divorce
JUST FUCKING LISTEN.
THIS IS HALLOWEEN BUT NOT LIKE YOU KNOW IT
reblog so others can hear it!
First off, I’m not sure where you expected on a radical feminist blog to see anything that supports kinks or porn. Nearly all radical feminist are openly anti-porn and kink critical(notice I say critical, not shaming). This is what true intersectional analysis entails, not always talking about things just to make yourself or others feel good about themselves. You are going to learn at some point that being a feminist entails making choices that will liberate all women, it is not about your personal empowerment, it is not about supporting things bred out of patriarchy. BDSM and dd/lg fetishes are NOT and will never be a “feminist”a choice, not every choice a woman makes is inherently feminist.
What people do in the bedroom seems to always make it’s way on a public forum, on unrelated post, and unfortunately onto the computer screens of impressionable children who don’t fully understand what they are seeing. The biggest question is not are these kinks/fetishes wrong, but why they exist at all. Dd/lg is perpetuation of pedophilia. I don’t feel like I need to explain how it’s basically just glorifying a sexual relationship between a daughter and a father(which is incest AND pedophilia). Of all the things to get off to, why something that was conceived out of two of the most disgusting forms of abuse that REAL little girls experience? So many of the same people who will tell you “don’t make jokes about rape or slavery or pedophilia because laughs are not more important than oppression!” will, in the very next breath, defend to the death people who make a mockery of these things in order to reach orgasm.
My feminism doesn’t care or prioritize your orgasm (especially if it endorses violence as a normal part of a relationship). Violence is never healthy. What I do care about is eradicating misogyny, gender power imbalances, ending abuse that kink culture thinks is oh-so-sexy, ending rape culture(kink culture supports people who fantasize about raping someone/being raped), ending pedophilia, and ending patriarchy > people’s orgasms.
There is a movie about to be released based on a book about abuse and it is going to further normalize this kind of behavior in men and it’s going to further socialize women and girls into desiring that behavior aka 50 Shades. I openly critique Dd/lg because they’re supporting, glorifying and re-enacting pedophilia. That’s what’s wrong with it. Adults should have basic analytical skills that deters them from sex that re-enacts incestuous pedophilia. It trivializes the experiences of all survivors of sexual abuse and sexualizes children.